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In case you missed it, because this is going really fast, I got engaged two weeks ago. You don’t want to miss those pictures if you are a runner, and also, in there there is a link to how Juan and I met. Through Running. Of course.
On August 21st, we got engaged, Monday September 2nd we did our engagement pictures, which I don’t have yet (will share, but we have this one!) and by Tuesday September 3rd, we were married! Not world record fast, but I’d say an age group win for sure!!! That’s just how we roll (sometimes!).
We spent the weekend excited about it, and also looking for shoes. I know I have said this before, but I wanted hot pink shoes. Oh well. No such luck. Poor Juan walked with me and carried my purse and graham crackers and gave me his opinion on approximately 200 shoes I tried on. So not worth our time. Live and learn.
Monday we did our thing. We wanted to make sure we had our time with this. These ceremonies go so fast, they are gone in a second and we did a Life Objectives list, like an adventure plan, and our secret vows no one will ever hear. We had a great time with it. For us, that was the point of committing to each other. The rest was the fun and the cute rituals.
Tuesday came around, the morning flew by. We were going to meet some friends at City Hall at 2:30, so at 1:20 we got in a cab, at 12 we started getting ready, had lunch at 11! Didn’t want to run out of energy on a day like this, for sure! Juan and I kept looking at each other like we didn’t believe we were really doing this… It was so fun and surreal and exciting!
Weather turned sunny as soon as we stepped outside, for some weird coincidence; it had been muggy and cloudy for DAYS. My friend Maricela was coming from Philly to be our witness at City Hall, and she offered to get me the bouquet; I said thanks, but I thought a bouquet? I need a bouquet??? I hadn’t even thought about it!! When we got to City Hall, she had just gotten there too..
All photos in this post by our amazing friend and megawatt photographer Ben Ko. If you need pics, he’s your guy, tell him you know me 😉 Also many thanks to Tessa Benau for looking for spots and angles, and to Bryan Dulog and Kenneth Tom for helping with the flashes and all Ben needed. Such an amazing team of friends I have..
Maricela and I have been really close friends since 2001, even when I moved to NYC. I was just so happy that she took a day off work to come be with us. It’s funny how as soon as she met Juan in July she and her hubby thought we had to get married because we were perfect for each other. I called her a lunatic.
We got in line. And then we did another magic shot with no people 😉
So, once we got our number, we thought we’d have like a half hour for pictures, or to have fun. No such thing!!! They called us to get our license and pay and then in to the chapel. All in a matter of 10 minutes. We barely got a few shots (well, we are FAST!)
Then, two minutes later, we were in the chapel. The officer asked if we’d do rings, OF COURSE, and told my friends to all get behind him so they could get better pictures… We were READY and giddy!!!
- This is my “I am too excited to look normal” face
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The impromptu bridal party, hahahaha! The wedding was so fast, two of them didn’t make it to the ceremony. NYC: the city where everyone is always running late (minus Juan and I, because he ALWAYS has to be early…!)
Luckily, Tessa had gotten lost on her way to City Hall so she had seen a lot of spots to take pictures… This spot was amazing. Not only because the stairs looked amazing, but also because our view from up there was UNBELIEVABLE…
We then walked over to the park that is in Park Row… I had no idea it was called City Hall Park, and I always loved the fountain there. I think it is gorgeous, mostly because of the architecture surrounding it. If you’re in NYC, it’s a tiny little park to see, and it’s close to so many spots you’d visit (Ground Zero, Century 21). So cute.
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A big group of Spanish tourists were just walking into the park and Ben somehow tried to communicate to them to get behind us. It was hilarious. Juan started screaming Viva Espania. They started screaming Viva Argentina, Vivan los novios. It was insane.
After those shots, came time to have some more relaxing fun. It was around 3:30 or 4 so we headed to a restaurant, and had food, which was great. It was just a small group so it was nice to take a little nice relaxing break. After some laughs and food, we headed over to the Terrace at Yotel, the biggest rooftop in the city, and a gorgeous view without the place being crowded or pretentious. Perfect. My friend Kettia found it, booked it and got it all set up. I really do have the best friends! REALLY.
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My friend and training partner Patricia, who is about to burst and then be the fastest mommy in NYC!
After a few hours of chatting with everyone as much as we could, and me begging for water (without even lemon, stupid ulcer!) and stealing every french fry I saw, we headed home. It was way past my 10:30 pm bedtime and I was sleepy. We stayed up for a bit because we were so so so excited. It felt a little unreal, and it still does. Our whole story and every day is still unreal. We just get along so well, when people would ask Juan about the honeymoon, he’d say we’ve been on a honeymoon since we met. Even if we live in a tiny studio apartment.
It was a really great day and I am very happy about where we are. We cared a lot more about the marriage than the wedding, and we want to make sure we’re doing all we can to be fair, honest, respectful and loving to each other. This decision just made it much more of a commitment, but I am very excited about what we just started. Even if calling someone husband is still pretty weird…
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OMG I love your pics! Congratulations!
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You look so happy! What amazing pictures. I’m so thrilled for you both. To your fabulous future together, may you run far and have fun!
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love the pics & the focus on the marriage, not the wedding. awesome. congrats! 🙂 ALSO love the shoes!
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thanks!!! 😉
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LOVE all the pics; you guys look great together. Best of wishes for a long and happy married life!
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thank you, that is all we want!
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“We cared a lot more about the marriage than the wedding.” That attitude will take you a long way, Ely. Congrats to you both.
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thanks Dave!
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I love this!!! You look so beautiful together (and separately, too)! I’m so happy for you. Congratulations! Wishing you as much happiness as you can stand!:-D
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thanks Maranda!!!
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Yay! Congrats. Love the pics and the focus on the marriage not the wedding.
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That was our main point with this, to not get lost in the trivial 😉
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Congratulations. Great Pic’s. Great time for a PR!
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hahaha, YES. 8 minute wedding – 3 weeks overall!
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I love everything about this 🙂 You are beautiful… & you all shine with happiness!! I love you did it your way… & in RED SHOES 🙂 Congrats!!!
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I wanted PINK SHOES!!!! I am such a superfluous brat sometimes… wasted hours looking for shoes to no avail, but whatever, I tried! THANKS!!!
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So happy for you two!! The photos are amazing!! Congrats:D
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thanks Liz!
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Eli, te merecés toda la felicidad del mundo. Se los ve radiantes de alegría. Les deseo todo lo mejor. Un beso muy grande
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Gracias!!!
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Great, now I have to cxl my divorce and my trip to NYC to steal you away 😦 I am so happy for you! you both look so amazing and I love the dress/shoes!
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Hahahaha, thank you. And OK, but gimme a couple of months with him, ok? He still looks cute…!
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yay! So happy for you! I loooove these photos. So beautiful. Sorry I missed the festivities 😦
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Thanks Kara!!!
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Two questions
1 Will we need to address you from now on as Mrs Ritz?
2 Will you be bringing him to the Boston Marathon anytime soon?
Oh and did I read that right?
You got engaged on Sept. 21??
You are a lovely looking couple!!
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hahaha, thanks… I think I’ll be MsRitz forever…. What do you think? Maybe… I am thinking about signing up for Boston on Monday, so if I come he probably will too!!! No, got engaged on August 21st and we’re doing the “ceremony” on Sept 21… why?
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Hermosa Ely! irradiando felicidad! divinas las fotos, estaban perfectos!
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Gracias Ro!!!!
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Simply gorgeous! Congratulations and thanks for sharing 🙂
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Thank you!!!
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Congratulations ! You make such a beautiful couple , I wish you happiness forever and ever and ever
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thank you!!!
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Eek!!! Congratulations!!!!!! Love the pictures!
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thanks!!!
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You guys look so happy, congratulations!!
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What a fun wedding day. Congratulations to you!
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Congrats, E!! Love all the pics. Def a BQ if there was one for weddings 🙂
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Love the pics, love you guys!
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Hellow my name is Martincoiny. Wery good-hearted article! Thx 🙂
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